I was chatting with a woman on Bumble this week and she ghosted me after I told her I run my own company and I make films. : ) The funny thing is, I don't mind when people ghost now. I'm grateful instead. The sooner you tell me you're not worth my time, the better. I'm still sending love to you on your journey.
"Reframe ghosting as a reflection of their communication skills, not your self worth." I agree with that view, thanks for sharing this article Cathy. : ) I wonder is "hiding" or "leaving" a substitute verb for ghosting? We can wave hello and wave goodbye in the same way when people come and go.
YASS! I thought of that when I read your comment. It’s sad to see how people don’t honour basic courtesy of good manners these days. Well it’s their loss!!! I mean,,, even if you won’t end up together, who knows,,, you might have a cute friend! Right??? 🤭🤭🤭 or they may have a cute friend who might be more suitable for you. People are too quick to give up! 😮💨😬
I absolutely LOVE this. It’s so spot on! I was watching a show where a woman was “desperate” (her words not mine) to find love but ghosted a man simply because he used a curse word. ONE. And instead of communicating with him in order to allow him the space to make correction, she just moved on. At what point will we begin to look into our own mirrors of accountability?
I was chatting with a woman on Bumble this week and she ghosted me after I told her I run my own company and I make films. : ) The funny thing is, I don't mind when people ghost now. I'm grateful instead. The sooner you tell me you're not worth my time, the better. I'm still sending love to you on your journey.
Good for you for not taking it personally! 🙌 Oh I read this article yesterday about why people ghost. Interesting.
https://www.self.com/story/how-to-get-over-being-ghosted-tips
"Reframe ghosting as a reflection of their communication skills, not your self worth." I agree with that view, thanks for sharing this article Cathy. : ) I wonder is "hiding" or "leaving" a substitute verb for ghosting? We can wave hello and wave goodbye in the same way when people come and go.
YASS! I thought of that when I read your comment. It’s sad to see how people don’t honour basic courtesy of good manners these days. Well it’s their loss!!! I mean,,, even if you won’t end up together, who knows,,, you might have a cute friend! Right??? 🤭🤭🤭 or they may have a cute friend who might be more suitable for you. People are too quick to give up! 😮💨😬
I absolutely LOVE this. It’s so spot on! I was watching a show where a woman was “desperate” (her words not mine) to find love but ghosted a man simply because he used a curse word. ONE. And instead of communicating with him in order to allow him the space to make correction, she just moved on. At what point will we begin to look into our own mirrors of accountability?
I concur! Lol such a balancing act, thanks for the shining the light. Now if I could only recall this in the moments needed!!!