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Eyitemi Adebowale's avatar

I'm totally team taking life too seriously... Sometimes it gets so bad that I feel like I'm losing out on something if I'm not engaged or busy....

Thanks for this reminder...

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Alex Tower Ewers's avatar

So yes the “taking life and things too seriously” club. And the feeling responsible for things that aren’t my responsibility. I’m in that one too. This post really resonated with me. I often don’t notice the tenseness and stress until it’s too late. But having a hard time breaking the very ingrained patterns.

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natalie l.'s avatar

three important reminders. thank you for sharing them. and for sharing yourself with your upcoming book (I pre-ordered)

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Fog Chaser's avatar

What a wonderful piece — thank you.

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Elizabeth Earnshaw, LMFT's avatar

I love this one Sara <3. And cheers to not having to come up with witty intro paragraphs!

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Giovanna Marquesete's avatar

The "being disliked" part really fits me like a glove right now, I really needed that. Right at the start of it, the phrase "sharpen our emotional maturity" was instantly highlighted in my mind, not only as a reminder of growth but as a warning – there is still growth to do, it is a process. Thank you!

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haywiresrey's avatar

this was a rlly calm read, thanks

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Fred Frechette's avatar

Cannot wait for your book! ✌️Fred

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Mike Metcalf's avatar

Thanks for the reflection and wisdom, it felt really resonant this week. I think I too easily let other people's opinions of me direct how I spend my energy, seeking validation instead of accepting my authentic self.

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